Don’t be so obsessed to have something that you make a commitment you can’t back out from.
Let me open up with a fact – Love isn’t the first stage to a relationship, it is a stage to your relationship. The first step is knowing someone as a boy/girl friend.
Probably, all those who are in the first stage must be disagreeing with me.
So your relationship might have started with a friendship, then crush, then you asked her to be your girlfriend and you said i love you! Now think about this – Isn’t there a difference between a person as your friend and as your boy/girl friend? There is, right. So you said a person whom you have known only as a friend, ” I LOVE YOU ” and made all the future plans. May be you would have predicted that he/she would be great as your life partner. But only predictions!
You might have spent some time alone while you were friends, but is it enough. Were you both had that idea in your mind that you both wanna have a future together?
Starting a relationship with a friend is always the best kind of love but it’s risky, for then it can spoil your friendship if it doesn’t work out. So what to do, not date a friend? No. Instead, give both of you some time. “Date” each other, spend some time alone with that idea in mind that there is a future of both of you. “And when you are sure that everything that you wanna know in your life partner is known to you, and if you have fallen for that person. Say, I Love You.”
This way, if your relationship doesn’t work out, it will be easier for you to break up and move on with your life and your friendship, if it doesn’t work out. Coz, you never know when it’s love, or when it’s just a crush. The Idea is know a “person as a friend, as an eternal valentine”